a weekend off

I love when the schedule does not allow for gambling, but I know that isn't long lasting.  Here we are just hours from the family leaving and he is back at it.  $80 in about half hour. I just want to scream.  Why do I have to be the monitor of the money.  I feel like making identical withdraws every day he does this.  Does he feel the anxiety or is it just me.  I asked him this morning to not go and to keep in mind we need to pay the mortgage.  I guess the selfishness is too much.  I watched hs father this weekend ruining a nice weekend due to his alcohol addiction and think to myself what did I expect that maybe that he could overcome what his father did to him. I guess the apple did not fall to far away from that tree.