I am the wife of a gambler. How can you describe yourself when it will reveal that secret. I sit here often with no one to talk to about my anxiety that comes from being the one in charge and responsible for scrapping it together to make the bills and give the illusion of that everything is all right.
Friday, August 3, 2012
The lull....
How long will this last? He is super depressed but not gambling. I am enjoying the reprieve, but hate to see him so sad.
You need to read the book Behind the Eight Ball. I have been married to a compulsive gambler for 7 years. I finally asked him to leave this past Aril. Do I still love him? Yes. But I couldn't live with the anxiety, fear, and hurt anymore. He was taking me down with him!! I would love to talk to you!! My email address is watson.candis@gmail.com. There is limited information out there for us. But what is out there is very valuable. You are not responsible for cleaning up the messes!! please contact me. I don't want or hope you haven't gone as far as I have with this. It hurts like hell in all aspects.
You need to read the book Behind the Eight Ball. I have been married to a compulsive gambler for 7 years. I finally asked him to leave this past Aril. Do I still love him? Yes. But I couldn't live with the anxiety, fear, and hurt anymore. He was taking me down with him!! I would love to talk to you!! My email address is watson.candis@gmail.com. There is limited information out there for us. But what is out there is very valuable. You are not responsible for cleaning up the messes!! please contact me. I don't want or hope you haven't gone as far as I have with this. It hurts like hell in all aspects.
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